ying─ ✦

aderling or xueying

introduction i’m ling or xiuying — whichever you prefer, just ask first. i’m pretty laid-back most of the time, a bit quiet, and mostly here to chill, trade, and talk with people who aren’t exhausting to be around. i like staying in my lane, doing my own thing, and keeping my space calm. i’m not great at social stuff but i try to be polite and genuine. i overthink a lot but i mean well, -and i really value honesty, patience, and consistency. i love my bf sm. ❤︎

⚠ don't follow if;

if you fit basic DNI (racist, lgbtphobic, ableist, proship, zoophile, etc.), are disrespectful, flirt with me (even jokingly), use petnames for me, make kys jokes, use or reclaim slurs, support or excuse grooming/scamming, or trauma dump without consent. Don’t interact if you’re under 15 unless it’s for trading/selling purposes — please don’t try to befriend me if you’re younger, I’ve had bad experiences with boundaries being crossed by minors. However, you can DM me for trading/selling or to ask questions — that’s completely fine. Don’t follow/interact if you invalidate mental illness, mock religion or atheism, or make me feel unsafe in any way.

✓ before u follow;

chilean, i have BPD, social phobia both diagnosed, so I’m sensitive and easily overwhelmed. I have a boyfriend (please don’t flirt or make suggestive jokes), a cat & a dog, and I’m atheist. I’m bisexual but prefer not to talk about it much due to personal reasons. I love kind, respectful people and often start appreciating someone a lot when they treat me warmly — I’ll always try to give that same care and support back. I dislike negativity, conflict, guilt-tripping and manipulation. I use social media mainly for trading and connecting with safe, trustworthy people; I take trust seriously and expect the same back. Just please be gentle with me ♡

i’m 18, chilean, and finishing school while figuring out my next steps (planning to move in with my boyfriend by the end of the year, which still feels surreal). i’m usually chill and quiet, but i like connecting with people who are kind, funny, and a little weird in the best way. i love music, art, and nights - i adore the moon. i have a cat and a dog who basically run my life, and i spend most of my free time with people i feel safe around. i’m sensitive, sometimes anxious, but i try to stay grounded and kind no matter what. if you’re respectful and genuine, we’ll probably get along really well ♡

  • ㅤdiscord:ㅤㅤversocoral

  • ㅤzzz ID:ㅤㅤ1003860326

  • ㅤroblox:ㅤㅤhuachengmio

  • ㅤwuwa ID:ㅤㅤ506470008

  • ㅤbf & friends:ㅤㅤtimoh ml 𖹭 ─ flupi • yue • minorin • ika • mio • luyi • neda .ᐟ

CURRENTLY
ㅤstudying:ㅤㅤ finishing highschool, planning on studying occupational therapy
ㅤdreaming:ㅤㅤ about living with my bf soon! at the end of the year
ㅤplaying:ㅤㅤ wuthering waves, zenless, honkai, project sekai, re6
ㅤlistening:ㅤㅤ xiao zhan, milo j, kidd voodoo, dpr ian, keshi, mon laferte
ㅤhobbies:ㅤㅤ editing, reading, playing, listening to music, yapping

favorites

fave books / manga / webtoons
tgcf, mdzs, white nights, little mushroom, fall in love with you false angels, gakurakugai, owari no seraph, etc
faves hobbies
editing, making carrds, receiving comms, writing my thoughts/feelings, spending time with my bf, playing
fave anime / movies / show
ride your wave, 20th century girl, hachiko, haikyuu, house md, a business proposal, arcane, spy x family, etc
fave music / band / idols
xiao zhan, vict molina, bibi, dpr ian, keshi, gemini, milo j, malice mizer, kidd voodoo, nicki nicole, wang yibo

♡ likes

likes
late-night talks, soft laughter, small acts of care, oversized hoodies, cozy playlists, rain against the window, collecting pretty small things (especially keychains + stickers), games, gentle people, exploring game's maps, candles that actually smell good, messy elegant handwriting, fictional angst, and playlists that somehow hurt a little
loves
my bf, the ocean at night, genuine affection, when someone remembers small details about me, sharing silence that feels peaceful instead of awkward, beautiful writing, constellations, and feeling understood without having to explain too much

✕ dislikes

dislikes
loud or pushy people, being ignored, cold lighting, sudden calls, fake niceness, unnecessary drama, guilt-tripping, crowded spaces, being rushed, people who talk over others, and when my comfort characters get misinterpreted
hates
groomers, scammers, people who romanticize mental illness, manipulation, betrayal, anyone who makes others feel unsafe, emotional games, and cruelty (especially toward animals), anyone who hates my fav characters and keeps telling me that, loud noises, fake friends, lies, cheaters, ppl who flirt with someone who has a partner or otherwise, ppl who has a partner and flirts with others

fav characters